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I have been so tired this week, slept for like 12 hours after work yesterday. But I got my signed peach rings cd today! Saw that they are going on tour but sadly I won't be able to see them (I really want to see a live set).
I have also been working a little on my Zine stuff, also a poem just for fun. I want to get at least one section of the Zine and that poem done by next week. Got a crazy busy week this week, I have all my normal job stuff plus a union meeting on Thursday and maybe a workshop on Saturday. I also want to work on this website more but I have kind of run out of ideas for now.
On the train home, it's raining all around me and I can't stop thinking about how grateful I am for my partner and how much I miss them. Will do a proper post about this weekend later but I just wanted to write about them because my heart is so full it hurts a little.
High above 70, light outside during my morning walk, everything immediately feels normal again.
My heart feels kinda heavy today. That means it's probably time to work on some art. Recently I have been working on a personal zine that's mostly narrative focusing on being trans and accepting that transness. I wanted to work on it because honestly I have been trying to piece my sense of self together since coming out. Before then I had a fractured multifaceted sense of self.I would dissociate pretty frequently bc of dysphoria and depression and it has left me with a very limited memory, especially of anytime before I came out a year and a half ago. This project has partially been trying to reclaim those memories and rearrange my fractured view of the past while forging my current identity. It has been pretty hard to write as it is the most personal thing I have ever written making it also the hardest but I feel very compelled to keep working on it. The largest issue right now is it feels like disjointed mad ramblings. I just did some writing for this and I am struggling because I think my timeline is wrong, but I guess that's the whole bad memory thing. Def need to rewrite the part I just wrote, 100% fucked up the time line.
What an odd morning today. Morning started normal, pepsi zero after getting out of bed (idk why ive been drinking so much pepsi), then breakfast, coffee, print some poems for work, brush teeth, get dressed, feed the bunnies, then leave. But it was my walk to work that was weird. I started to feel the floaty feeling I sometimes get when really dysphoric or depressed, like I'm detethering from my body and the world, but I was neither depressed or particularly dyphoric (nothing beyond my daily, ugh I need to be called Mr for 8 hours). I did my grounding techniques and listened to some music but neither seemed to help. Eventually, despite this, I did get to work. At work, before class, I needed to make some copies and in the copier room I ran into a colleague I have seen before but not talked to in my 3 years teaching here (it's a big school). We had a normal conversation and then right when I went to leave she asked me my pronouns, it caught me a little off guard but I guess I was right yesterday, not to mention she has probably seen me slowly begin to look very different lol. This wasn't part of the odd day and honestly was kinda cool that it happened but it did catch me off guard. On my walk home today I saw two deer, a baby and its mom.
Ugh, I have to clean today and I don't want to. Always hard to spend time cleaning after working all week. My partner is coming over later this week (they live a few hours away) so at least that'll give me some motivation. Once it warms up a little outside I will go take some pictures of my sprouts. For now Imma chug this pepsi zero for caffiene, put on a vinyl, and start cleaning.
Sprouts as promised! Still need to start cleaning lol.
Cleaned a bunch today! Didn't get everything done I wanted to but I think I was setting my expectations too high espc bc last week was very draining. Not excited to go to work tomorrow bc I need to be called my dead name all day and that really drains on me. Although its not like I can even call what im doing boymoding at this point, I have tits and my hair reaches my back lol. Ive been waiting to get my legal name change before fully coming out at work (im out everywhere else) but I keep putting it off bc it takes time, money, and effort ((espc when the courthouse is an hour thirty away using public transit and I don't have a car).
I decided to start working on a website the other day both to take my mind off the state of the world and to get involved with the indie net. Now don't get me wrong I don't want to be oblivious to or misinformed about the state of the world, I still want to keep up with the news and think it is imperative to organize in your communities (I have been organizing with my local nea chapter recently), but I can't imagine the constant 5 second "news" from social media is good for me. Not to mention, even if it wasn't brief, most of it is reposts of reposts from someone who did not read the primary sources, is fearmongering, or is just plain wrong. It's been a bad week in the world and my country, especially with last night's strikes on Iran and the worsening of persecution of trans folk in Kansas but listening to people online who pretend to know what they are talking about so they get ad revenue is something I want to stop in my life.
Shifting to a less serious topic, I have some seeds that are sprouting for my garden. I have tried to grow plants on my low light balcony for the past few years to mixed success, but I feel like this will be the year. Forgot to take pictures and now it is dark out so I will share them tomorrow.
